Date? Or not really a date? Thats the question on my mind. I am leaning towards not really a date. So the crush I mentioned before. I've been texting him (inviting) to come out fairly often the last few weeks. The problem is he is always busy and hasn't been able to come out every time I've asked. So this is the text conversation between us last night.
Me: We are going to Bo Didleys at 9 if you want to join.
Crush: Not tonight. I am watching Smallville season finale and then straight to bed.
Me: I am taping Smallville. You know I am gonna stop inviting you out. :P
Crush: How about doing something this weekend, like Star Wars and then drinks?
Me: Saturday? I work until 6. Star Wars and drinks sounds good.
Crush: I have to work Saturday too. Should be good for around 7.
Me: Sounds good. I can't wait to see Star Wars.
Crush: Alright its a date.
Me: Call me Saturday then :)
Crush: Sure enough.
So. Is it a date? I'm thinking he was just using the expression but I really just don't know.
Me: We are going to Bo Didleys at 9 if you want to join.
Crush: Not tonight. I am watching Smallville season finale and then straight to bed.
Me: I am taping Smallville. You know I am gonna stop inviting you out. :P
Crush: How about doing something this weekend, like Star Wars and then drinks?
Me: Saturday? I work until 6. Star Wars and drinks sounds good.
Crush: I have to work Saturday too. Should be good for around 7.
Me: Sounds good. I can't wait to see Star Wars.
Crush: Alright its a date.
Me: Call me Saturday then :)
Crush: Sure enough.
So. Is it a date? I'm thinking he was just using the expression but I really just don't know.
posted by Danikabur at 10:53 AM
18 Comments:
i guess u'll find out
True.. but I'm really curious to know NOW! I am not patient LOL
A lot of my first dates with a guy has been going to a movie and then coffee/drinks after. Its a good way to ensure conversation.. or break the ice. You talk about the movie if you can't think of something to say right away.
A couple other people are telling me its definitely a date.
Hmm. I'm inclined to think it's not a date. "It's a date?" I use that expression with a lot of people... it's never really a date.
But who knows? It could turn into a real date very quickly. Watch for the telltale signs. If he takes off his pants, it's a date.
The its a date wasn't a question. It was made more as a statement. I should mention this is the guy that kissed me a couple months ago (when he was REALLY drunk). Also the one that kept making eye contact the last time I saw him.
LMAO well I don't know. He might be taking off his clothes cuz he is just too hot...?
Could just be an expression. But, hey, you're interested, he's interested, could be a date.
Try not to think about it and just enjoy his company, cause, that is what you have been wanting all along, right?
You just reminded me to post about the married woman and me and my damned morals.
Well, I think hes interested. When you stated your going to stop asking him, he was ready to set something up to show he wasent just making excuses not to hang out.
I understand how your feeling...patience is not my strong suit. I want it NOW damn it!
i hate not knowing whats what. is it just gonna b the 2 of u??? (say yes :-p ) if i were u, i would text him on friday and say somethin like....really lookin forward to seein u tomorrow. but u have to make the text b about u being excited to see HIM, not the movie. do it early enough in the day so he can text u back and depending on what his response is ull know whether or not its a "date" :)
Hmmmm . . . interesting.
I would treat it as a "getting to know you" experience, and see what develops.
Somehow, I think he may have problems keeping his hands of you Leti . . . uhhh . . . Dani.
;-)
I've had mixed responses. However I think the question got solved. He called me last night to let me know that he muscalculated what time he'd be done work. (he has to drive out of town and deliver something) So we would need to go to the late movie. Which is cool with me. Then he asked if I had invited Darryl. I said uh no we didn't talk about it. He was like its fine either way (or something like that).
Darryl is plannig on calling him to find out what he is up to on the weekend. So that way if he wants to (and if he isn't interested in just the two of us going) he can invite him.
I think I will text him today to see if he wants me to pick up tickets early. Just to be sure it won't be sold out.
As much as I'd like to think he couldn't keep his hands off me. I sadly think he sees me as just friends.
Dani - trust me. He doesn't see you as just a friend. I'm sure he just wants to make sure you're comfortable with the whole thing.
And if he DOES see you as just a friend . . . he's gay.
LMFAO I'm pretty sure he isn't gay.
This is not my week.
Nobody has invited me out for Star Wars and drinks.
Ho Hum.
You need to add booze to the equation. Get the bastard drunk!
Then go skinny dipping.
Then kiss.
Then go home.
THATS a first date!
I totallly would have invited you if you lived near me Mark. I am going to have to see it again with other friends I think. They aren't too happy that I am going with crush and not them. LOL (I cheated and went last night though but shhh don't tell crush.)
Nice to meet you Aaron. The water around here is a little cold for skinny dipping still this time of year. Booze may be added to the equation though. We are supposed to go for drinks after the movie. Maybe (if I feel he is interested) I will kiss him.
Of course I'm pretty chicken shit and clueless when it comes to guys so... I wouldn't bet on the kiss happening unless he kisses me first.
I'd have invited you if we lived closer.. but it sounds like there is a lot of competition for your time lol.
Its a date if you want it to be date, it is just an expression if you want it to be an expression. You decide!
LOL well the competition for my time (to watch the movie) is probably because originally people seemed to already know when and who they were going with and I wasn't going with anyone yet. So of course I did the pouting thing and then had plenty of people to go with. :)
Well it doesn't necessarily work that way. If he isn't (and I'm now sure he isn't) interested then I can't really make it a date. lol
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