Thursday, August 10, 2006

GIAD is now GIAND (guy I am not dating). I know flip flop right. After thinking about some things he had said to me... I realize he isn't the guy for me. He didn't appreciate ME. He said some really hurtful things to me. I don't want to be around someone that will not think much of hurting me. I also don't want someone that judges everything I do or don't do. Like me for me not me for what I do for them.

18 Comments:

Blogger MYSTIC said...

Sorry Kid but some guys are just big assholes..........Is that being insensitive? He just suffers from (Cranial Rectal, Defilade Blindness)...He has his head shoved way up his ass so far that he can't see.

1:40 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger lawbrat said...

You're right to not settle. Go for whats right for you, who loves you for you. Its much better that way.

6:20 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Yeah Mystic... he sees what's/isn't on the outside but not what's on the inside. At least that is the impression I got with a pro/con list he made.

You're right lawbrat. It will be much better to be with someone that loves me for me. :D

7:13 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger MYSTIC said...

He made a freakin list? What is he Santa's lil helper? You are so much better off without list boy...
Somebody super will come along for you kiddo..just be patient. Mo doesn't have to make a list about me...she has a great memory.

8:01 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Yup a list... and nothing about my personality on it. There were a whole lot of cons about me though... like how I hate cooking and how I am not a morning person... etc.

I don't believe I'll find anyone super. I've lost faith. I'm just glad I have my friends. At least with them I know they love me unconditionally.

8:10 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger Callie said...

Dani - the perfect guy does not exist. However, there are lots and lots of really good ones. Just be patient, sweetie. Trust me, I know someone as wonderful as you will find a good one.

8:26 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger Dirty Gypsy said...

Holy shit. Who the hell does that guy think he is???

Dani, I know it sucks, but thank goodness you have the sense to know he's no good. I know a lot of women that wouldn't have done the same thing.

Callie's right. And he's gonna be one lucky son of a gun when he gets you...

10:40 PM, August 10, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

I've never looked for perfect Callie. I hate being patient. :P

Thanks Gypsy. If there is one thing I learned (and I'm sure there's more than that one thing) is not to let anyone treat me like I'm not good enough. I won't settle just to have someone. He has to be the right someone.

Thank you both. Hopefully one day I'll find someone that agrees.

1:11 AM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger Penny Shagwell said...

He made a list.

*pause in amazement*

Okay, so now I think we should make a list.

Originally, I said he was a moron. I think I'm going to add:

"asshat"
"prick"
and
"complete jerk"

Anyone else want to add to this list?

3:18 AM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger Motherdear said...

How about:

Cruel
Insensitive
Shallow
Judgmental
Piece of Crap in a Human Suit
Stupid
Superior

But I really love "Asshat" *giggle, giggle, twitter*

God, I love your expressions!!!

Anyhoo, Dani...

HOORAY! You don't need him. You don't need anyone. You're complete in yourself. And you won't find anyone when you're looking. It's when you aren't looking that they come around. Just get your life happy without someone else, and believe me, some guy will show up to complicate it for you.

Just try to make sure that the next guy deserves you and EARNS you, for you are treasure!!!

I repeat my offer of a cane thrashing for this buttmunch, by the way. Say the word, I'm there with my cane.

He's a fool. A stupid fool.

5:19 AM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger MYSTIC said...

YUP! I THINK THE GIRLS ABOUT COVERED THE ADJECTIVES ON THIS SUBJECT...I DID THE PIC THING FOR YOU ON THE BLOG...AS WE ALL ENVISION HIM...

5:54 AM, August 11, 2006  
Anonymous Erika said...

ding dong the jerk is gone. weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

11:12 AM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

LOL Erika I knew you'd be happy I'm done with him.

Ok some of the words used might be a bit harsh but you guys are not completely wrong. I don't think he realizes what a jerk he is though. Comments that he makes he says are jokes and maybe he really does intend them to be jokes. However mean things labeled joke doesn't make them any less mean. I don't think he likes to face that he does anything wrong. In his mind it isn't him.. it's MY problem. Anything that I would be upset about he'd turn it into how I shouldn't be like that. He'd roll his eyes and be like are you always going to be like that.

I really don't think he means to be a jerk. Whether he means it or not though it isn't right to treat someone the way he treated me. I'm sure he's thinking I'm a bitch or I'm psycho (since all his exes are psycho according to him) and that's what he'll tell his friends. It's too bad he won't actually think about his behavior. He could be a great catch. He has a good personality. I think he isn't a bad person. However if he continues being so self-centered he isn't a good catch.

He deleted my number and hopes to never talk to me again. So I'm sure he won't be reading my blog anymore.

I truly do wish him the best and hope he has a good life.

11:50 AM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger MYSTIC said...

DANI,,,,,,
I'VE READ YOUR LAST COMMENT...
YOU ARE GENETICALLY DEFECTIVE....
MUST COME WITH BEING A WOMAN AND BEING NURTURING AND ALL THAT...

HE IS A JERKKKKKKKKKKKKKK!

REREAD PENNY'S AND MD'S LIST OF ADJECTIVES....MEMORIZE THEM...

1:23 PM, August 11, 2006  
Blogger Chris said...

Just because you are a little kinky is no reason for him to be mean to you! Hold out for a man that appreciates you for who you are, like lowk for example.

4:56 AM, August 12, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Genetically defective? Hey!

ME? Kinky? What gave you that idea?

3:01 PM, August 12, 2006  
Anonymous Country Girl said...

Well I do believe that enough has been said about the list. . . but let me just say. . . . *shakes head* HE is the physco, if he is making lists of pros and cons as to why to be with you!! Geez!

It is nice to have some company in the world of "given up on finding a guy" I was getting quite lonely!! Glad to see ya Dani! :) And I am right there with you on the patience thing. . . :)

I am not goin to tell you any of those relationship cliche's cuz I know how it feels. I am not going to say "the right guy is around the corner" cuz if you are like me, you will eneviably take a wrong turn and miss him! *sigh* but I suppose if we hang in there long enough, we will find the right guy. . . and hopefully the nursing home attendants will let us eat dinner together and his wheelchair will be just as cool as mine!

1:15 PM, August 14, 2006  
Blogger Danikabur said...

It isn't the fact that he made the list. It's that he had nothing but physical pros AND that he TOLD me about the list. People do that all the time. They just don't tell the other person about it... especially if there are only physical qualities on the pro side... unless they are trying to hurt the person.

Oh well if Mr.Right isn't around the corner... or doesn't exist for me... or I constantly make wrong turns... well that will be ok. I'll just be happy with what I've got. :D

5:15 PM, August 14, 2006  

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