Saturday, July 09, 2005

I know one of the things making me grouchy is the fact that I am single. I've been single for a while. I never seem to meet guys... at least not ones I am interested in. I truly don't think my standards are too high. I no longer think that its because there is something wrong with me.. or how I look. Its very frustrating though.

I keep being told that I should make the first move. The thing is all of the times I did I was turned down or the person went out with me only because I asked and not because they were that interested. I have come to a decision that I will not make the first move. I want a guy that likes me enough to make the first move... one that has confidence enough to do that. I will still flirt and do things that indicate I have an interest in them but they have to be the one to come after me. There may be exceptions to that (llike if I met Mike Comrie again lol) but for the most part I am just not going to worry myself about making the first move anymore.

Also I've been losing weight.. actually that isn't really true.. I weigh the same but I am losing fat (gaining muscle) because I look thinner and my clothes either fit better or are too big. I am really liking how I look now and what I'd really like to do is go to the restaurant where I hit on the bartender (and was shot down). I'd like to go there and show him what he is missing out on. ;)

30 Comments:

Blogger 81 Vaginas said...

fitness can become an addiction...good luck with it...(you already look quite fit, by the way).

5:49 PM, July 09, 2005  
Blogger lowk said...

You look great Dani, If that bartender wasn't smart enough to make a move on you then you're better off. He oblivopusly doesn't know a great catch when he sees one.

6:34 PM, July 09, 2005  
Blogger Callie said...

Maybe he was just intimidated by you. Either that, or he had other commitments.

And I think you should go, too. Just because. Wear the purple flowered shirt. THAT'll get his attention.

6:39 PM, July 09, 2005  
Blogger Labbie said...

Ehem! What do you think I've been doing with all that inuendo about "drawing" you on canvas on the floor? *wink, wink, and what not*

10:43 PM, July 09, 2005  
Blogger Larry said...

Or no shirt. That will work too.

12:02 AM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Thanks guys!!!

Lab boy if you didn't live so far away....

2:46 AM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Chris Nystrom said...

Your problem is probably you are too good looking so men are afraid to approach you, considering you out of their leauge. Try not looking so good.

4:39 AM, July 10, 2005  
Anonymous lawbrat said...

Dani, you are a beautiful woman! When the time is right it will happen. It seems when you not looking for it, then BAM! its right there.

9:48 AM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Chris I have been told that... however I always think its just an excuse to make me feel better...

I've also heard that before lawbrat but how can I not be looking when its what I want lol.

10:34 AM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger lowk said...

Dani, just be yourself an be happy. Everything will fall in place. It always does. Hell, I found Callie. Someone will come into your life and they will be what you are looking for. And if not tell me and I'll remove them for you.

4:47 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Chris Nystrom said...

I wonder if legalizing polygamy would help?

9:29 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Yeah I don't worry too much about it... just every now and then.

LOL I don't think I'd like polygamy.

10:12 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Labbie said...

Hey, if you ever find yourself in Pennsylvania, which is a border state to Canada, drop me a line... If I should go to Alberta, well, I'll find a way of packing up the watercolors... ;)

10:23 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Sure! Although I'm not sure I'd ever go to Pennsylvania... what province does it border?

10:26 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Larry said...

Dani, don't sell PA short. Philadelphia is where our country was born. Lots of cool stuff to see there. Plus you could eat one of the greatest foods ever created. CHEESESTEAKS. Pennsylvania borders Ontario by way of Lake Erie.

10:42 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Cheesesteaks? Describe them...

I don't get out to Ontario often... its about a 3 day drive (and $900 flight) to get there. So I really only head out there once every few years.

11:00 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Chris Nystrom said...

So you could never see yourself with like 6 husbands?

11:15 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Well maybe but it doesn't usually work that way. Its usually the guy that gets 6 wives. I think I could see myself having a couple husbands but I think 6 would be too many.

11:40 PM, July 10, 2005  
Blogger lowk said...

Can I be one??? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

6:34 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Oh sorry lowk.. you already have a wife. My husbands will only be married to me. I refuse to share..

8:09 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Mossy Stone said...

I know it's probably small comfort, but things will happen for you when they're destined to happen. Back in my single days, I'd loathe the time that passed inbetween dates and meeting people. It seemed arduous and endless. All I can say is that you're likely to find something when you really stop looking.

Chin up, it seems like you have much to offer. Now it's up to the gods of timing and circumstance.

9:32 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

For the most part I am ok with being single.. just every now and then I get frustrated.

9:54 AM, July 11, 2005  
Anonymous E The Bounty Hunter said...

Sexually frustrated. Lol.

10:28 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

LOL not really sexually frustrated...

10:29 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Labbie said...

Cheesesteaks... MMMMMM. Yes. It's beef steak with condiments, maybe some onion and greenpepper (depending on where you get them), and cheese, all melted into it, on a breadroll...
I agree with you, don't share.
And there's no such thing as sexual frustration if you know how to control yourself... Or, for girls, ride a bike :p Kidding.

11:42 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Thats what I thought.. I love cheesesteaks. SO YUMMY!! I love dipping it in beef juice dip. Mmmm

"or ride a bike" LOL

11:54 AM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Tydes Perdition said...

Ahh... the Dating Game. Fun, isn't it?

11:41 PM, July 11, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

Yeah... lol hate the dating game.

9:16 AM, July 12, 2005  
Blogger Digitalicat said...

Maybe you should start carrying chloroform? Whichever guy doesn't run when he wakes up just might be the one for you.

11:49 AM, July 12, 2005  
Blogger Danikabur said...

LMAO!!! No drugging!

12:07 PM, July 12, 2005  

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